Couple’s First Vacation
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You’ve heard the story before: boy and girl meet, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl go on vacation, boy and girl have first fight. It’s the exact opposite of what should happen, since vacations are meant to be relaxing and enjoyable. But sometimes the stress of planning and the weight of our expectations get the better of us, sullying what is meant to be a fun and romantic getaway.
In order to reduce the potential for pain, try following these easy steps:
A whole new world: If you go somewhere one of you has already been, half the couple will feel confident while the other half feels like a pet being pulled along on a leash. Deciding on a mutually-undiscovered vacation destination will help the two of you bond over shared excitement. When you finally arrive, your relationship will grow as you discover your vacation spot and each other.
The couple that plans together, stays together: Do your vacation planning together and be honest about your desires. Discussing what each other’s expectations are in advance will help reduce the stress of different vacation styles. If one person’s style is to relax every day and the other wants to take the 4×4 out on daily adventures, it’s best to discuss this before your departure.
Let’s talk about money, baby: It may be a difficult subject for a new couple, but talking about finances in advance will help waylay any potential money problems you’re going to encounter while in paradise.
Keep it clean: At home, you may leave the toilet seat up or decorate the bathroom floor with wet towels, but when you’re on your first vacation with your significant other, try to behave yourself. The fewer domestic disputes, the better.
When in doubt, take a break: If you feel yourself getting cranky, do something by yourself. Go for a walk, take a shower, read a few chapters of the book you brought with you; it doesn’t matter what you do, but step away from the situation before you say or do something that you’ll regret.
Any other suggestions from those of you with bad vacation experiences?